Godly parenting is a thousand times harder and more complex for us today than it was in the 1970s, when a small group of committed Christians in the Sutherland Shire decided to establish Christ-centred, Bible-centred education for their children to counter the direction in which public education was heading. What we predicted about this trend over 50 years ago is now very much among us, and we need all the help we can get to ensure the spiritual health of our children as they struggle under this pressure. Stephen McAlpine is a clear thinker and has some very encouraging and affirming advice to help us negotiate the minefield we’re in.
The back cover says:
“Western culture has changed dramatically over the last few decades, and it shows no sign of stopping. If you’re feeling bewildered, you’re not the only one.
“Can the Bible help when we face questions about social media, cancel culture, or what pronouns to use? Can Jesus be attractive to the next generation when Christian values are seen as outdated or offensive? Can our churches survive, let alone thrive?
“Yes.
“Jesus has made the church futureproof. He has given us everything we need - not just to survive, but to build flourishing, wise, compelling communities that face the future with confidence.
“We just have to think through how.”
I was encouraged by the way Stephen McAlpine points to Moses’ command to Israel in Deuteronomy 6. Parents must avoid ‘outsourcing’ the discipling of their children to technological devices, by putting them in front of a screen to occupy them allowing the parent to get on with important tasks. We need to take seriously the command: “Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. IMPRESS them on your children. TALK about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” (Deuteronomy 6:4-9). And Stephen McAlpine gives excellent practical advice about how to fulfil these commands.
I found the book very confronting and challenging, but also very comforting, and encouraging of us not to give up. This is how he ends Chapter 7, ‘The Culture Wars: How to Flourish as a Citizen’:
“Here’s the encouragement: There’s a King above who still rules and reigns, despite the secular culture’s insistence otherwise. The culture war is, in the end, a phoney war; the true battle has been fought and won by King Jesus over the powers and principalities. What we are experiencing are the retreating skirmishes of a vanquished foe - rebellious citizens who have usurped their true King in the vain hope of claiming territory they do not own. But we have true hope: “But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Saviour from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.” (Philippians 3:20-21).
I cannot recommend this book strongly enough!
Rev Bruce Christian